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Hi! I'm Dani, I am twenty years old. I was attending college but took some time off. Like any other twenty year old girl, I love fashion, partying and going out with my friends. I moved to California for awhile, but decided home was better for the moment :-) Recently i've learned that things don't always work out the way you would hope, & I would love to help people through this beautiful disaster we call LIFE.

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15/f,freshman
There is this boy in my class who I've constantly fought with.He insulted me and stuff...and then 2 weeks ago our teacher made us sit together in class.I was really frustrated in the beginning but after a few days we actually started getting along and now I've fallen for him.I don't even know when it happened.I heard from my best girl friend in class that at the end of the first term,he asked her to help him get with me.She started complimenting him in front of me but I said I'd never like him cause he's mean,and apparently he heard it and got really disappointed,so he tried to get my attention by insulting me,and he told her to stop trying.The problem is now I like him,I'm not sure he likes me back after all and I desperately want him to notice me.Yesterday he was looking at me when he thought I wouldn't see (but I saw him lol),talked randomly to me,smiled,I caught his gaze a few times...we held hands for a bit after a high-five,I jumped on him,he held me but didn't protest,we wore each other's jacket...and I kept wondering why he didn't complain at all...My friends say they think it's because he likes me.Then,today he almost paid no attention at all to me.I've been told that it's just in my head.I feel very lousy,because I want to show him how I feel,but on the other hand I do not want to get rejected or laughed at for my crush...I can't figure out if he likes me or not...all I hear is "don't worry he does" but I have no concrete proof and honestly I'm sick and tired of being rejected...what should I do?I have no courage to confront him about it...yet I'm not sure how long I can wait to see what will happen...

His actions clearly show signs of him liking you :) He is probably just as shy about admitting it to you, which is why he asked your friend to help him get with you, instead of just telling you himself. You shouldnt worry about being rejected. Some of the best things in life come from taking a chance. So my advice is if you like him you should directly let him know, that way you aren't waiting around to see what's going to happen. If you don't feel comfortable saying it to his face, maybe write a note, or message him online or something. This will also help your confidence level in these types of situations later on in life. Good Luck!

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