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Q: I have been good friends with this boy for 10 years. He is so great to me, I can count on him with anything. I could tell him I am having a bad day and he will call me and play a song on his guitar for me because he knows I love when he plays. I go to him with my problems because he is the one who is ALWAYS there to help me and when I tell him I feel bad for dumping my horrible life on his plate he tells me to not worry about it, that he wants to help me especially if he knows that the problem is bothering me. I have never really thought of him being anything more to me than just my best friend until my girl best friend brought it up to me. Everybody says we already act like a couple because of the way we treat each other, we "smile" at each other and give "googly eyes" I don't see any of it and neither does he but why does everyone else? I don't know if any of you guys know the 'silly bandz' the rubber bands that are shaped into animals and such, he took two of mine and he wears them everyday when this girl that likes him made him a bracelet and he said he isn't fond of things staying on his wrist. His best friend is the one who brought it up to him and my other best friend is the one who brought it up to me. So both of our friends started talking and they spread it around the whole school that we really need to go out. I just thought he was always being friendly playing songs for me and helping me. One last thing, he also attended a dance for me, he wasn't going to go but I had convinced him after two hours to come and he did for me. What's your view? Please and Thank You.

I think you to sound like you would make a good couple because of how close you are. you have to think about if you are ready for a relationship like that though. Your bestfriend now your boy friend. would you be able to handle holding his hands or kissing or anything like that. if you two were to break up would your friend ships stay strong?

Rating: 4

that's what im worried about. i would die if i lose him. thanks for your time.

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.