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Q: hiya...i have been single 4 1 month after being with my ex boyfriend 4 4 and a half years...it wasnt a perticular good relationship and it should of ended sooner..when we broke up i think i kind of craved male attention as i didnt get this from my ex and i slept with 2 or 3 people..however i met this new people when i was out in clubs and that...im just a bit worried now cos every guy i have met is just after sex? im not saying i want a relationship cos its way too soon..but im worried that these guys are all the same and i wont find anybody who i really like..and the nice guys who seem interested in gettin to know me who arent after sex im just not attracted too? i dont know if i wil ever find the right person 4 me? im 20
theres still hope sweetie. the way to go about findin someone is takin it very slow. at first they are only gonna be interested in sex. DONT GIVE IT TO THEM. tell them yu just want to be their friend. get to know them on a personal level. ask them about past relationships...like their longest one...why they are single....why they are only after sex. just get to know them..show them yu are more than a piece of ass an yu are a respectable woman whos lookin for someone to spend time with an not someone to just have sex with.

it seems all men only want sex now-a-days...yu just have to take things extra slow...become their bestfriend that way that see the best in yu then work your way up from there. cuz yu do want your boyfriend to be your bestfriend. if yu cant stand him as a friend then yu damn sure aint gonna be able to stand him as a boyfriend.

thanks for your help,appreciate it! xx

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