Member Since: December 22, 2009
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Last Update: March 24, 2010
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Okay so, This boy that i am in love with, the girl thats treats him bad just broke up with him becauze they do not get along.So now i thought we would go out cuz he told me we would. But he is now like.I am only useing you for sex,& you let me. I cant help my self he is like a drug to me for 2 years now. Should i let him go? Or should i keep trying? (link)
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I know to me that the plain and simple answer is definately let him go, but to u.. I can see why it can be difficult. Two years is a long time to be with someone whether they're a friend, lover, or sex freak. My cousin visited me this summer for like 2 weeks and right after she left I missed her already. Your relationship between the guy that you're having sex with and my relationship are two different kinds of relationship, but something they have in common is that they're both someone important to us. My cousin is important to me because I love her. That guy is important to you because you love him, but what he is doing to you is clearly showing you that he doesnt love you back. If he's only using you for sex then why date him? Sometimes staying around long enough isn't going to make him see anything more than what he does see in you, and I know that may be harsh but what's important is your happiness. 2 years is a really long time, and if I were you I'd rather spend those two years away from him and finding someone that would value me. I know you love him, I dont understand WHY you love him. But what would make you happier? Him using you as sex or you finding someone else you love that loves you back? Sex between two people that love each other dearly is a very important thing in bonding. If he doesn't love you what are you bonding for? He just wants to have fun, when you're clearly serious.
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Thank you so much
this makes alot of scence:)
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