I was just at a dance tonight and I asked my friend, Ben if he was going, he said probably not but after about two hours of convincing, i finally got him to come. So, i was warning people that he was coming and one girl that heard likes him soooo much which doesnt bother me until later that night. she was on him allll night and i felt like i was getting jealous but i shouldn't have been. then at the end of the night a slow song came on, she grabbed him and started dancing, he doesnt feel that way, i know so, he told me, but i got so upset that i just walked away trying to keep my cool until i came home. so i arrived home, texted him and told him how i felt tonight, that i was so upset that i was the reason he came, but i got zero time with him, yes, he apologized like any guy would but things escalated and ended so wrong, we got so mad at eachother that i just started crying so hard. he said he wanted to go to bed but i wanted to keep talking until he said isnt he allowed to leave until i was satisfied with this conversation. so i got so mad i just texted back "BYE!" and he didnt even answer back. so i have 2 questions: some of my friends think he likes me and that i was the reason he went, for me. do you think thats true? and, did i lose him for good, if so how do i get him back? this whole thing was over a stupid girl! i regret ever opening my mouth but i thought i should have told him how i felt seeming as we tell eachother everything and we've been best friends since 3rd grade. any help, please.. im desperate.
Hi. So what i think is that, you should've talked to him personally about what happened. Fights over texts can be really unclear specially that you don't know the person face to face..
You have to tell him how you've felt. Besides, no girl can take him away.. No gentleman can be taken away by one girl from the one he truly cares about.
You should talk to him and vent how you truly felt. That way, he'll be able to understand. You know him too well so you should know the right words. You didnt actually lost him dear. It's just a matter of misunderstanding unless he feels otherwise. Dont pull yourself down.. please rate. and ill be more than willing to help.. keep me updated :)
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thank you. this helped me so much and really picked my up out of my slum. i will indeed talk to him and set things straight, he's one boy i cant ever lose.
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