Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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weve ben going out a year and a half and were extremely close. him and my bestfriend fell in "love" and hungout alot without me. i still dont know if they did anything. but that was about two months ago, and once again hes acting like he doesnt know me he didnt even get me a christmas present or even feel bad about it. he keeps cancelling plans on me. i have two exs and they both cheated on me i cant take it if he does it too. but he acts like he loves me so much when were ever together alone. today and tomarrow we have snowdays and were gona hangout all day and he cancelled on me both days and saturday. help? i cant handle this, he acts like im his world and his true love, half the time.. (link)
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half the time. that means 50/100% of the time, hes a total asshole. that is not enough to keep a relationship going. here is what you need to do:
1) come into terms with the fact that he cheated on you before, and nothing is stopping him from doing it again.
2) he cheated on you with your BEST FRIEND. what the hell does that tell you?
3) your best friend does not deserve that lable. shes as guilty as he is, and i would not call her even as much as an aquiantance.
4) he keeps cancelling on you and didn't get you anything for christmas and doesnt even feel any remorse. that's not a good boyfriend at all.
5) you deserve so much better, because to me, it looks like you want love so much, you're willing to stay with an asshole who treats you like dirt.
6) have you ever thought that maybe you don't like him as much as you like the feeling of having a boyfriend? think about it.
what i would do if i were you, (this is my advice) call his ass and dump him. tell him you're tired of being neglected and you want it to work, but you can't keep being let down like this. he needs to meet you halfway and make an effort, and if he doesn't, then its not going to work out. like i said, from what it sounds like, he is cheating on you, and that's wrong, even in a highschool relationship, this is assuming that you're in highschool.
try to take a break on guys for a while. you'll find someone who would never do anything to hurt you, will get you presents all the time, even on christmas, and wouldn't cancel plans unless they were bleeding internally or dying. there is such a guy out there, and he's looking for you, too. and, i'm so sorry to say, since i know how much you care about him, but that guy is not the guy you're with.
think about what i said. and good luck :)
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thanks :) ..but idk if i can i dont have it in me i love him?
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