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Q: weve ben going out a year and a half and were extremely close. him and my bestfriend fell in "love" and hungout alot without me. i still dont know if they did anything. but that was about two months ago, and once again hes acting like he doesnt know me he didnt even get me a christmas present or even feel bad about it. he keeps cancelling plans on me. i have two exs and they both cheated on me i cant take it if he does it too. but he acts like he loves me so much when were ever together alone. today and tomarrow we have snowdays and were gona hangout all day and he cancelled on me both days and saturday. help? i cant handle this, he acts like im his world and his true love, half the time..
from what you have said it sounds like its possible he is cheating on you or talking to another female. I had an ex whom I thought was cheating on me but I was not going to break up with him until I new for sure if he was cheating on me or not. We lived together and he just made me feel alone. he worked his job twice a day but his hours that he worked at night would get later and later. He keep accussing me of cheating on him. So I had a mad feeling when I worked one day and he wouldnt answer the phone or text message me back or anything but that night his phone was "dead" he was hanging with one of his guy friends in the other room so I looked at his phone and there were text messages to a phone number he told me was a guy friend. it was a female he told her he loved her etc. but i was a mess for like 2 months although i meet the man of my dreams after that and we are married now with a baby on the way. if it turns out he is cheating its not the end of the world because there is a man out there who wont do that to you.

aw im sorry. idk if i can thought i really love him and hes saved my life a few times..

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.

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