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-Charlotte
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I think I am being pressured into sex.. I have a boyfriend who just wants to have sex sex sex sex sex SEX!! and I am getting tired of telling him no! I am too young I am only 14(8months). we been together only 7 months and all he ever ask about is sex sex and more sex.. what do i do??? I feel he is not going to respect me if do manage to have sex with him after a while....
I NEED HELP !
Im NOT readyy!!!
-Jay Help! (link)
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I agree with the above statement. It is YOUR body, not his. It is YOUR decision, not his. If you don't want to, you don't have to. Period. If he is pressuring you, tell him you don't appreciate that he is pressuring you. If he does not stop, dump him. You do not have to give in to please him. If he REALLY loves you, he will acknowledge and respect your boundaries. If he says "if you really love me, you'll have sex with me and prove it," he is only trying to satisfy his own selfish needs.
Be strong. Do what YOU want to do, not what anyone else does. You have a right to your own body.
All the best.
-Charlotte
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