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-Ms. B

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16 female

Ok, I'm kind of freaking out right now! My family's computer has an anti-virus program and it does a weekly scan to find any threats. The reason I'm worried is because lately I've been kind of curious and looking at a little bit of porn. If something comes up in the scan about that, I'm really afraid of what my parents will do. I'm straight, but the porn I've been looking at is of girls just out of curiosity. Another reason is that I'm kind of self conscious of how my body has grown, so I wanted to see how other women's bodies looked.

How am I supposed to explain this to them? I don't want to get in trouble if they think it's wrong or something. Is it wrong?

It is not wrong at all to be curious of the female body. I suggest talking to your mom (or female parent) about it upfront. Just be like, "hey, in health class we've been talking a lot about the body, I've just been feeling interested about how my body is growing and changing so I checked out this site the other day." Tell her how your feeling about your self consciousness as well. She'll most certainly understand, and if not, talk to your guidance counselor. If they do get angry and they ground you, just remember, you've done nothing wrong. They say Curiosity killed the cat. But, cats have nine lives don't they? ;-)
-Ms.B

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