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Gender: Female
Location: SOUTH FLORIDA
Age: 16
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16/f
This may get very confusing. Names have been changed...
I used to hang out with a guy named Donald, Donald and I hung out a LOT, and did everything together, including sexual stuff. Well I wanted a relationship and Donald didn't, so we stayed as friends with benefits. (Donald had girlfriends the whole time I was talking to him, very bad idea, but I was definitely falling for him and he knew it...)
One day Donald picks me up and he had brought his friend Brandon with him. I was always hanging out with Donald and his friends. They all knew me, and they all liked me. (They're my second family now.)
Well when I met Donalds friend, Brandon I immediatley thought he was good looking! And there was just something about him that I could tell I liked him right away. Well since I had feelings for Donald I continued to mess with Donald, and me and Brandon became good friends.
Recently, Brandon invited me to come hang out with him, and stay the night so we could drink and hang out. Well, at the time I didn't really think I liked Brandon that way..Well come to find out I definately like him a whole LOT.
Brandon kissed me, I kissed back. He asked me out, I said yes. Brandon told Donald. Donald was okay with it, but told Brandon I would most likely cheat on him, which I definately won't.
But anyways I have a feeling Donald might call me up one night, and ask me to hang out with him which will lead to sexual stuff, and I don't want to cheat on Brandon. If Donald calls what should I tell him? Because I don't want him mad at me, I still love him, just not in love with him.
I love all of them, and I don't want anybody to get hurt, what should I do? (link)
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OMG..... I just got out of this same exact situation in july. I thaught it was going to be difficult to get out of that mess, but it ended up being easier than i thaught when i was able to find a logical solution. well you donald was my david. so, if he really doesnt want to have a relationship and just wants relations, you have to let him know whats up and that you want to have more than a sexual relationship. and if he does get mad that should prove to you that he isnt worth any more of your time. and you should sit down take a minnute and think is it really LOVE or is it just LUST(big difference). and you should think and ask him is he only sexually atrracted to you. and if you had an automatic connection to brandon like that, then you should hold on to that. there is always time to move on. and you have to if the situation is right (or goes wrong) but your actually hurting yourslf more than you would be hurting them by putting you and your feelings before them for a change.
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Rating: 5
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Yeah. Brandon and I are together, and Donald is okay with it. so its all good =]
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