About Darby
My name is Darby. I'm seventeen years old. Feel free to e-mail or message me with any question. My e-mail is yo.darbyjay@live.com I will answer anything to the best of my ability. I decided to join this site because I love giving advice and have been told that I'm good at it. I get on every day. Usually a few times. You can also add me on AIM: OiScumPunk@aim.com.
XX
Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist
E-mail: yo.darbyjay@live.com
Gender: Female
Age: 17
MSN: yo.darbyjay@live.com
Member Since: April 26, 2009
Answers: 614
Last Update: December 23, 2009
Visitors: 32128
Main Categories:
Love Life
Mental health
Random Weirdos
View All
Advicenators.com
|
|
|
hey its hannahh. so i really hope you don't mind me bugging you with all of these questions. you're really helping me alot though and its nice to have someone the same age know what she's talking about :)
so anyway he's been texting me a good amount lately (he started it) and since we're both like obsessed with snowboarding he asked me to go this sunday. i'm not really sure how to play it, like if he asks me how i'm doing what should i say? should i say ehh ok :/ or something like i'm doing really well :) (obviously i still want him back, but maybe if i pretend like everythings good he'll miss me)...so how do you think i should play it and any other advice?
oh and i kinda want to go in the hot tub after ;) it wouldn't be awkward cause he knows i'm always cold lol but i think it'd be a good excuse to just talk and bond and stuff lol buut the problem is i don't have one :( so do you know of like anything we could do after so we can just talk? like i don't want it to be too obvious that i just did it to talk to him you know?
thanks so much :)
Hey (:
I think that when he asks how you're doing, you should say something like, "Oh, I've been alright I guess. You?" That way it's sort of in between. You don't want to be like, "Oh, gosh it's just been awful." But you don't want to be like, "Oh yeah, everything's been going great." The middle ground is usually better (:
As far as what to do after snowboarding, it really depends what you're into. I smoke and drink coffee nonstop, so if I want to talk to a guy, I'll just ask if he wants to go outside and smoke/drink coffee. If it's too cold outside, I'll start out by just sitting on my doorsteps, then ask if he wants to go sit in my car so we can be a little warmer. Then I'm alone with the person and I can just turn the heat on in my car and listen to music and talk about whatever I want to talk about.
Because you're going snowboarding, you'll probably be cold. So ask if he wants to go to a cafe and get some coffee or hot chocolate. It won't be crazy obvious because it really will be necessary to get something warm. But it will let him know that you want to spend a little bit of time alone talking to him.
Good luck,
Darby(:
[view]
(Rating: 5)
yeah thats a good idea. i was thinking about going to starbucks. thanks a tonn :)
| |
