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Q: Hey, my name is Nikki. My brother is 18 and his friends come around ALL THE TIME! So when I have my friends over, there always over. My brothers friends are like my brothers, because I have known them for SO long. My friend Jess was over one time and was like "whose that? hes hot" (talking about brothers friend carl) So i was like carl.. and shes like hes hot as. So she went on bebo and went through my list to get my brothers bebo so she could get carls bebo. Now they talk. So, i made a rule.. saying "none of the girls over when the guys are over" so she was like why?? and i was like because you girls (when my other girl mates are over) always flirt with him and stuff. Now they are going to have sex sometime soon! She always talks about him, which bugs me. They can talk to each other if they wanna talk about each other. It feels like she only wants to come over when hes over. What do I do? Ive explained how i feel and what my rules are between the too. I dont care if they have sex, because thats not my choice. I just dont want it to overcome our realtionship. And ive told her that we arnt going to talk about carl again because it grosses me out. Bestfriend + brother = :S.. soo what do I do now ?
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I know it would be awkard for you but you've done all you really can do. Telling her that she's not allowed when he's over is good because than hyou'll know that shes over for you and not for him... I'd say just leave it if they stay together great but if they break up be there for her becuase she will need you there to comfort her..and yes if they do it'll be hard and really awkward but you seem like a smart girl and you know what you will have to do than...hope that helps:)
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Thanks alot. Appreciate it :)
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Hey whats up! If you wanna know about me all you have to do is ask. I am very good at giving advice although sometimes I can be very harsh when it comes to the truth. But the truth hurts and if I am brutely honest I'm sorry. I listen to Dr. Laura so that could be why sometimes. I dont care what you say about her.. I like her deal with it but if you need advice just let me know and I'll do my best to help you out :)
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