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Cutting to the chase:
My best friend and I had been planning to get an apartment together for about a year. She joined a sorority last semester and she clicked with two other girls in her sorority. Meanwhile, she was talking to me about still getting an apartment together.
The other day, she told me she had been talking about getting an apartment together with her sorority sisters at the same time and that she was going to live with them next year instead. BASICALLY, she told me all our plans of living together were not gonna happen because I'm not in her sorority.
Now I have to figure out my housing situation next year (I don't have any one else I would live with) and there's this awkward tension between her and I.
This really hurts my feelings. I told her and she was like "Yes, I know I pulled a douche move, but I feel like you'll have other options. I know what I did was bad, but I want you to know I'm still your friend."
I just feel like I hit a brick wall. I hate my college. I have no one to live with next year. The person I thought was my best friend is leaving me for two other girls. I see friendships this year dwindling because of housing situations. It's hard to maintain friendships when one is living off campus and the other is on.
Any advice? I need to move forward, but I don't know how.
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I see where you are coming at. Why don't you just make other new friends. It will slowly take the tension you have with your other friend. you will forget what she did and you have your new best friend to support you. It would be the beginning of a new friendship. Does that answer you question???
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No it doesn't. First, it's harder to make new friends when you feel stuck. I hate my school and I don't have the option of transferring. I've tried making new friends, it's harder at my school because people are more close-minded.
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