Member Since: October 28, 2009 Answers: 12 Last Update: July 21, 2010 Visitors: 1357
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there is a boy that i want to get his attention but i dont no how. we danced together at our halloween dance and we were both really into it, he tried to kiss me but i didnt want to kiss hiim in the middle of a school dance b/c im just not like that. but the thing is i actually do want to hook up with him..just not there. so i messaged him on facebook last weekend and said hey and then he answered and said he had a fun time dancing with me .i said you should text me sometime and gave him my number. then he gave me his too even though i didnt ask for it but he never texted me and its been like a week. i usually am not the one to initiate things like i did in this situation, because i think its the boy's job but i was sick of waiting around so i was the first to say seomthing. another thing is hes a grade younger then me so he maybe nervous? what should i do to get him to talk to me (link)
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All us girls want guys to make the first move, and back in the good old days.. that's what happened. But it's a new age and generation, and more and more girls are actually the one's to begin making the move. Don't feel nervous about it, it shows him you have confidence.
Second, don't push it or come on too strong. You want him to like you for you, and that might take sometime. Hang out, go see a movie. Get to know eachother a little better, but don't rush into things.
Girls mature more quickly then guys, so he could be nervous. But you have to be the one who's confident enough to ask HIM out.
Good luck!
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