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Q: me and boyfriend after being together a year and a month have decided to "break up".
i am moving out of his place and back into my house with my family.
we have had malicious fights and now we are doing this to
"save our realtionship". does that sound ethical?
i mean we both still love eahcother and will hang out--i will give him rides to school (we have class togther) and work (we still work together lol) and yeah.
we just needed to be ourselves again and not like an old mean fighting married couple that we turned into.
he also has alot he needs to work on like his anger problems and self control- one big reason we broke up....
but the term "broke up" is complicated-he said he wont be dating anyone else-iam the one he loves.
i dont really want to see anyone else either-and when i asked him what our status was he said he didnt want us to be "single"
i agreed
i asked him what we are going to tell people when they ask us if we have a boy/girlfriend and he said "we will say i have a signifigant other who is very signifigant!"
he says we are saving our relationship before it got out of control and ruined and i think so too...

i just needed to vent. its hard.
any thoughts or experiences of your own? lemme know
i'd love to hear it

take things slow. i dont know your age but you sound young. so be careful. rushing things can really hurt and i am glad you all are moving out and taking some time a part. I think you to should "date" do the teenage thing. movies, dinner, skating things like that. start over refresh your relationship.

Rating: 5

i love ur advice--we are actually toning down our relationship and are doing the whole dating scenario over again! thank u :)

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.