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Well I asked you a question before about doing something special for my boyfriend...and I especially wanted you to answer this question that I posted earlier. I'm not looking forward to the sugar coated advice I know a lot of other advicenators will give me so I'm counting on you lol. Well here it goes...
I'm 16/f and I need some sex advice. My boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other (sort of) last month and I want to do it again BUT the right way this time. You see when we tried to have sex before, it didn't go in all the way. It kind of hurt but for the most part it was an uncomfortable feeling. Probably because I'm not used to a penis being in there I assume. My question is how can I make it more comfortable for us next time and more enjoyable? I want to make this time good and something to remember. (link)
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Morning!
Okay, Seriously do I know you? I got the same thing exact problem.
Okay well, I found that she hurt more when I didn't go down on her ( you know kissing and licking that spot ) and do you get into it to quickly? I mean is it kiss, kiss into sex? I haven't tested but next time we do the nasty I am gonna kiss first, then give her oral for 25 mins straight lol then very slowly slip in
anyways I am debating to even have sex at the moment, seems to complicate things.
All i can say for you is
Do not be nervous
Be on a bed, not in a car.
Make sure your all alone
Make sure its 'wet'
Hurts to much? try and be on top and control the situation.
warn him when jabbing becomes to rough on flower
etc
Make sure, your not rushed
rushing it won't take away nervousness or pain
so remember, slowly
and remember, if im wrong, well I haven't done it correctly either so im in his situation trying to figure out how to please my girlfriend in a gentle way
lastly, sex is important but not all about it, I am a clingy guy heart filled to a relationship that last a long time.
I know this is more then you want, but i just woke up, and when i just wake up im more emotional for some reason hah!
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Thanks. We don't jump right into it but we don't do oral sadly. I bet that would do the trick though lol. &nd I know sex isn't what a relationship is all about, thank you!!
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