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My sister is 15-years-old. We have had problems with her for years, she doesn't do anything anyone tells her, has screaming tantrums on a daily basis, steals from us and more recently has been kicked out of school.
Today I found out that she is pregnant by her boyfriend of six months. I am absolutely livid. This is my final year of school and I will be taking important exams around the time that the baby is due. It is also my 18th birthday next week, which is a pretty big deal as I live in the UK, and we were planning a big party with family and friends. Obviously this is now being completely overshadowed.
I know I'm being selfish for just thinking about myself but for years I have suffered as a result of her behaviour, baring the brunt of my parents' anger and finding it really difficult to stay at home as the constant noise and arguments are too much. This feels like the last straw. This year is so important for me and instead of fully supporting me, my parents are going to be preoccupied with this.
I know she might not even end up having the baby as it is very early days and she hasn't made any decisions yet, but I am furious with both her and my parents, who I partially blame for this. Ever since she got together with her boyfriend I told my parents I didn't think it was a good idea to let her stay at his house and that she wasn't using protection but no one listened to me. They are now angry with me for being upset. My sister and I had a bad relationship anyway but now I don't want her anywhere near me. As far as I'm concerned she has ruined what is going to be one of the most important years of my life.
What should I do? I honestly don't think I can bare being anywhere near her, let alone live with her, especially if she decides to keep the baby. I can hardly look at my parents because I'm so angry about their attitude and the way they're dealing with it. (link)
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obviously your sister is a troubled person , my best friends little sister is the same way only shes 12... yeah its bad.
but look, your sisters bringin a baby in the world. you need to get over yourself and your problems with her because she probably needs you right now, just like you would need an older sister in this situation.
what are your parents goin to do ? she already had sex and shes already pregnant. its not like theyre goin to ground her. i got pregnant at 15, and my parents werent happy but they didnt act like that could do somethin about it because they knew there was no point.
when you turn 18, MOVE OUT. your parents arent goin to kick your 15 year old sister out because you cant stand her.
youre sister probably wants all the attention and thats the reason for her behavior. just kill her with kindness, meanin just act so nice to her that she cant be a bitch to you.
sorry about your sister, but its a situation thats not gonna go away so you need to find a way to make the best of it.
good luck.
x sweeethoney
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Believe me, she does NOT need me. She has treated us all with contempt for most of her life which is why I am upset that my parents are more concerned with her problems than my own, when all I have done is work hard and do what I'm told. My sister is incredibly difficult to live with and up to this point was planning on leaving home as soon as she turns 16.
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