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E-mail: Ldiva223@tmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: queens new york
Occupation: I want to become a phycologist
Age: 16
AIM: Ldiva223
Member Since: September 27, 2009
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I could never trust anyone but my closest relatives.Everyone I knew would betray me.People would always make fun of me for reasons I wasn't familiar with.First there were the ones I went to elementary school with.I'm not exaggerating when I say I had almost no friends at all.Only a few out of hundreds of them could actually understand me.For 8 years it seemed like nothing would ever change.I thought they hated me because I was and still am a straight A's student who doesn't like going out at night and getting into trouble.But that's not all.I had a boyfriend who I was truly in love with.He was with me for 7 months,but then cheated on me with my best friend who ended up not caring about me and went for him.I was destroyed for months.He was my everything and I grew up with her.Luckily,my grades remained the same.The thing is I can't bring myself to trust anyone now.Especially boys.For some weird reason I always think they're kidding me.I'm in first year of high school now,and today a guy from my class who's apparently hitting on me came up to me and said I was the hottest girl in class,and instead of feeling good about it,I wanted to slap him! I did say thanks though,but I have major trust issues!I always think people hate me and make fun of me behind my back... I want to fix it but I'm lost and I don't know how.I hate when some people who are good to me,mostly girls tell me they wish they were me,because they have no idea how I feel and what emotional mess I am.What should I do about this? It's just too much for someone my age to handle.Thanks for taking your time to read this. (link)
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Welll you are to young for this. But I mean it does happen . I mean you can't trust everyone . But you have to really get to know people to call them your friend . I lost a lot of people in my life . And I thought they where my friend but they just use me . So now I am very careful with who I say is my friend . I look at how they treat other people how they treat themselves and etc . And to be honest I only have 3 real female friends. And now for the boys part . Not all boys are the same . You just have to keep looking . Look for the qualties thatb your ex boyfriend had but then try to find better. And try not to make sure your friends and boyfriend get to close . And explain to the new boy you meet. Tel him what your not interested in and tell him you have no time to play games and you have no time for your heart get broken . Try it . And be honest with people let them know from the beginning of what you do and don't like . So then they will make the decision if they wanna be with you or not . And it will cause less pain to you because you told them from the beginning . And there is notthinfg wrong with being smart sweety .
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