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Q: I am 16 female, my bf is 18. So here's the thing, I'm very shy! Not that confident in my "self look," I'm skinny skinny but I'm also not a huge whale, no offense to anyone. I'm a 34C cup, I get embarrassed when he touches me sexually, and very shy too. But I do like it, it's just when he tells me to tell him what I want or like, it makes me get all shy and blah!!! I hate it, on the phone when we talk, he turns me on and says things he'd be doing to me, or wants to do, then when I'm supposed to I get shy or embarrassed and I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO SAY!!!! It really sucks, I've always been more of a pleaser then get pleased, and I like to act not talk about acting. Has anyone lese had this problem? Is it normal? Am I hopeless, will I ever get over this? Him and I have been together for 9 months now, we started fooling around on our 5 month together. What should I do?! :(

just tell him you aren't so confident on the phone its so much easier in person. i mean my husband and I when were dating i wanted to talk dirty to each other on the phone and he just wasn't into it. so we just ended up fooling around more in person.

Rating: 4

I have but, well guys are...blah! =-=;
But thanks anyways.

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.