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18/f
Long story short, I am insecure, and I have dated my bf for about 2 years now. We even live together due to certain complications lol. But, I hate when I start a debate and end up finding out obvious things like the fact that he looks at other girls, especially areas quite uncomfortable. And all he says is "I try to look away, and distract myself, which I do, by finding some other guy who looks stupid staring at the girl". It really gets me jealous... I wish I weren't insecure and jealous, and I cant help it, can anyone try and help mee?
sincerely,
insecurely jealous. (link)
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boys will be boys. men are the more.. should i say hornier gender of the two. im sure he doesnt mean anythin by it, but guys lookin at girls is jus a habit. i mean, that doesnt make it right but you have to give them some leeway because theyre so used to it. youve been with him for 2 years, which obviously shows that he wants to be with you over any other girl that hes checked out, so take that into consideration and try to work somethin out.
dont go out to places where there are a ton of girls to at. im sure that you check out other dudes, not lookin at their package or nothin, but you have to admit other guys are good lookin besides your man.
that doesnt mean that youre doin anythin bad, you just have to work on it together !
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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