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I've lived and loved and I hope you can benefit from my experience. I'm happy to help if I can. I may not always tell you what you want to hear, but I'll always tell you the truth.
Member Since: September 27, 2009
Answers: 21
Last Update: October 2, 2009
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ok there are alot of jerks at my school and im not completely dry when it comes to insults but i want some good ones that will make them speechless so i can be left alone and stick up for the people getting bullied and harrassed. im ready to put a stop to it.i think some people need to be put in there place and knocked down a notch. (link)
You have to be careful in situations like these. You can have an arsenal of the best comebacks, but could also get yourself jumped or beaten up when you're caught off guard.

A better (and safer) approach might be to pause for a few seconds before responding to an insult and ask yourself, "Will this matter in a year?" The answer is, probably not. In actuality, it may not matter in a week, so pick your battles carefully.

From a logical standpoint, what do you care if someone calls you a b*%$h or a w&*$e? Even if it's true, the world will not be much affected by your sex life or your attitude. It won't stop world hunger or overthrow governments, so who cares if some girl wants to comment on it?

As for defending your friends, it's best for you to just be their friend. When a friend is being insulted, it will be a boost to their self-esteem to know they can count on YOUR friendship.

All my love,
Aunt Kerry


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you never answered my question you just told me what not to do and its hard to find me to jump me cause im at home or im at a populated areas with friends i even take the bus and if i get in a fight im positove i have more friends than enemys and the point was not to make them angry its for them to leave me alone im not bullied they dont get my money they just take my peace and quiet and i dont want to deal with it




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