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Okay so I have this Really sweet, cool, nice awesome, funny guy that i REALLY like. I get the tingles just thinking about him. I really want to go out with him. But if he dosent like me back then I dont want our friendship to be weird and akward. PLZ help me. i have never done this before and i REALLY like him.
Sincerely,
Maddie :) (link)
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Well, depends on how long you've been friends.
My friend and I get along REALLY well, we've been called soulmates, but we've known each other since kindergarten (I'm in 9th grade). I can't feel anything more than friendship for him.
If you've known each other than long, the chances he likes you could be smaller, but they're still there.
Try flirting! Trust me, it works! I tried it for the first time today, and I have a pretty good idea of the guy's feelings for me now--he likes me, but is too stubborn to tell me.
Tell us what his behavior towards you is like, so we can hlep more. =]
I find that the best way to tell a guy you like him is to just... do it. Like jumping into a cold swimming pool, it's easy to wade in a bit, hold your breath, and take the plunge.
Of course, you shouldn't just be talking about videogames then say "I LIKE YOU SO MUCH BE MY BF????"
He'll have a heart attack, poor guy! LOL
I have a trick that I used to use when I was still pretty shy--
ask during a lull in a conversation or something when you two are alone, "Ya know, some of our friends are saying we should go out... I dunno... I mean, do you like me?"
if he says "no" you can easily laugh it off like "Hah, KNEW they were wrong." and make jokes about it. Crisis averted, frienship spared.
but then, if he says "yes"... well... you know what to do there. ;-)
good luck!
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thank you sooooo much for the advice. i can tell that he kinda likes me. idk i cant tell guys. i have known him since kindergarden and im in 8th grade.
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