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Q: I like this guy at school, and he likes me, he asked me out at the start of the year like 2nd day of school and i said no because im not the most confident person around guys. I gues is how i would put it. He told me a couple of weeks ago he still has feelings for me and that he loves me. Then he asked me what i thought of him i told him i do like him to and yeh from then on we got closer. He is now my boyfriend. Im a shy kind of person and im happy to admit that but it gets the better of me. The other day after we said goodbye and hugged, he kissed me, i froze, and kind of stepped back. I didnt expect him to kiss me. the next night he asked me whether i think of him differently because of what happened but i dont. i love him just as much. But he asked me why i stepped back. i answered "i wasn't expecting it, i gues." he didnt mind. but since then we hug and stuff but we dont kiss. I Havent kissed any one ever before and it kinda freaks me out. He always askes me if we could kiss. I always say yes but i chicken out when it happens at the last minute. I dont know why. It gets really awkward. I want to kiss him but ive never kissed someone before and i just chicken out :( hellpppp...
ok i think it is the point that you have not yet kissed someone before, besides when he kissed you. so you are nervous, nervous you wont be good? let him know that he would be the first guy for you to kiss so you always chicked out. it is perfectly fine to be shy. but to get over this. you have to suck it up sorry if that sounded bossy lol. just look your self in the mirror and say i am going to kiss "his name" next time i see him. walk up to him put your hand on his cheek tilt your head and kiss him. dont be scared he really likes you or else he wouldnt try so much. its a kiss its not like sex or anything like that.. now if you really feel you are not ready hold off.

thanks :)

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.

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