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hey im 18 and my boyfriend is 21. his ex girlfriend who he is still friends with invited him to her 21st birthday party. its of course going to be a drinking party and such. the only issue I have a problem with is 4 of his ex girlfriends are going to be there one who still has feelings for him. plus he would be spending the night there. 2 of his ex girlfriends have boyfriends so he assured me not to worry. he said he would only go if one of his guy friends went. but he really wants to go because he hasn't hung out with them in a while. I asked him kinda vise versa like if my ex boyfriends were going to a party and I was invited and going to spend the night type of thing. he kinda hesitated and didn't give me an answer. should I let him go I mean I don't want to control him I just find it kind of awkward. thanks for the advice I rate! (link)
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1. How long have the two of you been together? Long enough to be known as an item?
2. Much to my surprise, you weren't invited as well.
3. Does the girl having the party know about you?
4. He should have insisted on bringing you when he got the invite so that sucks right off the bat.
5. This guy goes through girls like most people go through underwear. That raises eyebrows. He seems a little too popular to me.
6."...he said he would only go if one of his guy friends went". How about only going if you went.
Doesn't sound kosher to me. Tell him to go and have fun. Your going out with your ex, but not to worry. You won't be drinking that much.
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