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15/f.
I have been talking to this boy M since August of last yr. We have never been together. When I first met him I wasn't so interested, and now I'm in love with him. Don't tell me I dont know what love is. I've never in my life felt the way I feel about him about any other boy. As of now he has a girlfriend A. We can't stand eachother at all. M knows how I feel, but the confusion is on how he feels. I know he cares somewhat, I dont know how much, or how little. I feel like he wants me to compete with her or something, and I just wont do that. Um on Monday we had sex for the first time. Right now I'm feeling like I should just give up, he makes no effort to talk to me, or to come see me. And Monday night I feel the only reason he came was to get some. When I tell him that I dont understand why he act's like he cares when he knows he doesn't, he tells me he does care and all this bullshit. I'm just so depressed cause I want to be with him, and I dont want him to be with her, or any other girl. But he seems to not care at all. And it doesn't make it any better that I have to see them all the time at school together. I'm thinking about changing schools or something, Idk how to deal with this, What should I do?

Well it sounds to me like he just wanted sex and honestly do you really want to be with someone that has a history of cheating? If you have told him how you feel and he still doesn't leave his girlfriend than he has no interest in you like you do in him. If you want my advice I would just move on and don't let him take advantage of you. It's either her or you and you need to let him know that. If he does decide to stay with her than you just need to stay away from them all together and don't change schools over some guy. First loves come and go, don't let it get you too down.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, that really helped
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