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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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I like the drum major of the band, like I said. Everyday, I'm getting closer to the conclusion that he likes me. Everytime the band is being bad, he will yell at the band as a whole but when he calls set and the band is ready and I'm not he won't tell me "get ready" or "come on, listen better" when someone else in the band isnt in their spot or in playing position like he says, he'll yell at them and tell them they need to hustle more. It seems to me like he yells at everyone else in the band but me and his buddies. Another thing, alot of people in the band think he's gay, which he isnt. He kinda portrays it sometimes but only his close friends, the nice band geeks and me believe he isn't. I like him alot and one more thing that might help is he talks to everyone else in the band like he is best friends with them, yet he doesn't talk to me. ps: dont reply "he likes you, talk to him." because I don't talk to the guys, they make the first move for me, I have worked to hard on a guy before to only be let down so I let them come to me. Thanks! < {(15/f)}
Its a really complicated situation. I completely understand your ideals on men and it is their job to make the first move. I don't think he is gay either, if he were he would be hanging around women more. He may likes authority over the men and in a mans mind like that, he wouldn't yell at you because technically in his mind he already has control over women. He certainly wouldn't do it to his friends either. He also may be trying to impress you by showing how authoritative he can be.
(Rating: 4) thanks, i like him alot so heres hoping!