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So, since the start of July I started to "talk" to this guy. He's 18,and a freshman in college this september. He made it clear that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship because he wasn't sure if he was going to meet someone in college. The college is literally 5 minutes away from my house. Anyways, we would text eachother every single day. I liked him alot and I was sooo sure he did too,just that gut instinct. He told me he liked me but he didn't know how much. So all of a sudden, last week; he just stops texting me. Then, when he finally decides to text me, he stops responding to me after 2 texts. So, 2 days ago I decided I don't have time to deal with immature guys. I told him, we should stop talking and he said he didn't want us to stop talking. well it sure seems like he wanted us to. he told me to wait 3 weeks and he would decide what he wants. wtf. no.
What do you think about all of this? Do you think he's playing a game? Or he really doesn't know what he's doing wrong?
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Hi there..
Just a suggestion... Maybe he's met someone and is testing her out, you know, to see if things work out. He's obviously given her a 3 week trial.
I think you should definitely tell this guy that your not all about waiting for when and if he thinks the time is right. I'd have a serious chat with this guy..
Tell him that you feel you are being pulled along and although you are attracted to him you deserve better then what he's given you.
He's definitely not worth it if he can't decide right now if he wants you or not!!
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