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Photobucket" align=left hspace=10> Allooooo~ well to start off...I go by as Dennise and giving advice is what I'm here to do and I plan to provide whatever assistance I can offer to the best of my abilities.

I've had my share of ups-and-downs (don't we all) and I'm more than willing enough to help those that ask.

In fair warning: I won't give answers that are "gusshied with sprinkles on top" (or whatever things that that line follows). I will be blunt if the situation calls for it...either you take the honest words or brush it off and go search for a lie~ all in all, it's entirely your choice.
Advice is simply there for people to brood and consider over, not a forceful act.

So feel free to ask me whatever you wish to be answered and the advice shall slide over these keyboards~ ^-^


"If it's free, it's advice; if you pay for it, it's counseling;
if you can use either one, it's a miracle."
-Jack Adams-

"If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it,
If you don't ask, the answer is always no.
If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place."
-Anonymous-







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It's been like this for quite some time now. I feel lost, like I'm slipping away. I've been stressed with relationships, friendships, and school.And.. I feel so different with my boyfriend then before, and I'm not too sure why. I mean, I still care for him, but something has changed. And we got into this fight today, and it hasnt helped whatsoever. I've been in this big hole of depression. I don't know what to do. On top of this, I've had a really bad urge to hurt myself. I've already cut myself open with my nails. Any advice would be appreciated.

You have to ask yourself before lifting your finger above your skin: What exactly do you get out of cutting yourself, other than scars and such? It's not going to relax your mind from whatever stress you're venturing through. You may think that the pain will help avert your mind from whatever that is bothering you, but it works the opposite way. Cutting yourself in the progress eventually gets worst as you are reminded of why you are hurting yourself in the first place.

You can take this irresistible urge of harming your body by doing something the YOU enjoy to do...like drawing, reading, or even a simple stroll around the streets,. If this urge is still too great to overcome, find someone you completely trust to talk about your situation. You're never alone in this world, hun and so don't try to deal this by yourself.

If you choose to, you can even try to talk to your boyfriend about what's bothering you. But that depends entirely on who you think is best to talk with.

I hope this advice was of some use to you and if you have any questions or want help, feel free to email me~ take care and hang in there. Depression comes and goes in our lives, but we can learn to deal with it as long as we have the help from others. =3

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