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Ok my story is a little bit long am sorry.
My boyfriend and i roke up in april 18 of 2009. then in may 03 he got with another girl. after that i made them brake up because i didnt liked the fact that he was with another girl. Ok he broke up with her in may29. Then in july 30th he got back with me.He was telling me all this stuff that he cantk with him because i really do love him. Then now in agust 1 he left to the dominican republic.Just 2 days ago i found out he has another live without me and sooo on.I whent bacgirl ovethere. at fisrt i thought his friend were just kidding but then i saw some pictures of him huggind with the girl and too closed together.there is another one with them in the pool together.right now he doesnt know that i know he has another girl. he is coming back on sunday. i dont want to call him and insult him because then he will end up staying ovethere,and i will be debastated.If you were in this position what will you do?? (link)
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Well, the first part reminded me of me and my recent ex. Not long after we broke up, he went out with another girl which bothered me but I let it go, because it's his life. But anyway.
The first thing is that you shouldn't have MADE him break up with that girl because he can do what he wants, and you can't really tell him what to do. But you're saying that you two were dating the second time only a few days before he left for Dominican Republic? and did you know that he was going there? If I knew that he was going there, I wouldn't bother trying to get with him again if I knew he was leaving, you wouldn't see him anyway. I would have just told him how I felt and see what his response was. But anyway, when he comes back, just let him know in person how you feel about him being in those pictures with all those girls and how it made you feel uncomfortable. Also, he might have just felt held down by you because (don't take this the wrong way) you seem a bit controlling which is okay because that's how some of us are in relationships. And maybe he was just having fun and getting away from things for a while and not worrying about anything. If he acts like he doesn't care about what he did and it doesn't seem to affect him that you were affected by it, then unfortunately he might not feel the same way about you and he just went out with you to make you feel better. It sounds brutal but I'm just letting you know my opinion of the situation.
Let me know what happens when you tell him when you comes back on Sunday then. I hope things work out okay! If you have any other questions, I'm here :]
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