Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
Last Update: March 8, 2012
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I am 15 years old, and I have known my boyfriend for 4 years, he also happens to be my best friend's 13 year old brother. Just recently he and I became eachother's first boyfriend and girlfriend after we told eachother that we've always liked one another. It's been a few months now, we see eachother alot and just act silly and play like we always have....but it doesn't feel any different to me. I really wish to hold his hand or at least have him show the ways that he cares for me in person, instead of only showing them on-line :P. Then a few days ago he emailed me and told me that he cares for me so much but he doesn't feel mature enough to be in a relationship. He has also heard (from my best friend) that lately there have been some guys my age making moves on me...which of course i have no interest in tham at all! I was very understanding of his feelings, though it does make me sad. But he says that it makes him feel like a wimp that he hasn't made a move yet..He just feels nervous that he's going to mess up being romantic and he says that i deserve more than that. I really need some advice! I really truly like him, but should I just let this go and try dating someone my own age in the future?( which i can't imagine right now) What could I possibly do to help him with being more brave to show how he feels about me? Should I just be patient and let him start being romantic when it feels right for him? (link)
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this is too cute....I remember back in 2005 i was 15 & i meet this boy from church who happened to be 13...yes i like him alot & he also felt the same about me..he asked me out & i gave him a chance.Of course we were both inexperience & very shy expressing our feeling in person so we would write emails or little love notes to each other saying how much we like each other...the first couple of months we didnt do anything but just kiss & hang out...We were still both shy to hold hands & all that other stuff..Anyways the point is that up 2 this day me n him are still together =)(more than 4yrs now)....Im now 19 & he is 17...& we are deeply in love.. Girl i say dont rush anything in the relationship becoz its better to wait for all the good things ya both can share & do together, its a wonderful feeling being with that guy who you truely love.. my bf thought that since i was older i was going to leave him for someone around my age..but i proved him wrong because he was the one i wanted to be with...You gotta believe in your relationship, make the first move if you have too & live everyday without regrets. Tell him that your not going anywhere & together ya would be..& to not feel as if you going to leave him.....ya are young but it can happen =) Stay with him, ya would mature together.
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Wow, thanks so much. :) It's nice to get some advice from someone who was in a very similar situation to mine, I definitely like this guy and I hope things work out well for him and I just as they did for you and your boyfriend. I am curious though, i hope to still be with this guy by the time i go to college, but since he is 2 years younger I am unsure of what is going to happen to our relationship...i guess I'll just have to live in the moment.
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