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Sorry in advance if this is a bit long.
16/f
I was with a boy for 7 months. Our relationship was great. We loved each other. However, he told me that he felt like he couldn't make me happy and I deserved better and dumped me. He broke my heart, however eventually I moved on and got over it. 5 Months pass by and he decides to re enter my life! Wanting to give things another try. I lost my virginity to this guy, therefore I feel so attached to him. I take him back and give him another try.
The 2 months we're together is awful. He didn't treat me nicely and refused to tell me he loved me. I told him we should end it. Another 2 months goes by.. and guess who decides to enter my life AGAIN! I was firm with him and told him I couldn't do this again. However, like an idiot I give in.
He told me things i've never heard him say before and that he really did love me blah blah blah.
We hang out again.. and he decides we should be "together" He told me he wants to take it slow to avoid hurting me again. Every time we hangout it gets sexual and we've been "together" now for 2 weeks. He doesn't text me too much. I wonder if
anything will change. My mind is so confused and
I just feel so attached to this kid. Any suggestions of what I should do? (link)
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Honestly I've heard about people like him for so long and I'm so sick of it. You were an idiot to let him back in over and over again and I know you know it as you said it yourself early in the question. I also agree with you calling him a kid at the end, because that is all he is, a kid. It is natural to feel attached to your first sexual partner, the first time is always special ... regardless of how messy or awkward it might be =). The best thing for you to do is get on with a better life without him or anyone else like him. Find someone new, someone that will make you feel how you deserve to feel, happy! You need to remember that you will never please this child because all children ever want is more and you are not a bloody sex despenser ... say "NO!" and mean it. Good luck =)
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