Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
Last Update: March 8, 2012
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I've been dating this guy for about 3-4 months, and I'm absolutely head-over-heels for him. But one thing has got in between us, he's been jealous of my one friend, Alex.
Alex and I have known each other for a few years, but have just started talking recently. At first, he was very flirty and would say things like "You deserve better than what you get" when I'd have fights with my boyfriend, or if I was having a bad day. And.. I told my boyfriend about it and what not, and of course he got upset. Don't get me wrong, I understand that.
So, I told Alex to back off and that I was sick of his flirting, and he hasn't done it since. He even messaged my boyfriend and told him that he hopes we stay together for a long time and stuff. Alex supports me a lot, with my writing and my problems. He's as sensitive as I am, and I think of him as a good friend, nothing more.
Well, he's coming back to town. I haven't actually seen him in a year. My boyfriend is upset about me hanging out with him, although he said I can. But now.. I feel like if I do go, I'd be upsetting him, and I'd feel guilty about it.
Any Advice on this situation? D: (link)
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Maybe invite your boyfriend to come along so he wont feel like you are leaving him behind..they might kick it off as good friends...but personally if he doesnt want to go, i say if you really feel its right for you to hang out with him then do so. but then dont get mad wen your bf hangs out with his female friends..it all depends if you are willing to sacrifie not hanging out with alex, and making your bf happy or vice versa.
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I did invite him before, but it'd just be akward. But thanks so much.
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