Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
Last Update: March 8, 2012
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14/F
Okay. Like, really, I am about ready to just give up on guys. Ugh. So this guy I like right now (well not really anymore) is a complete ahole, I don't even know why I like him. But he really only just wants to feel me up. Everytime I text him or call him, he says he's busy and that he'll text/call me when he's done... he NEVER does. But of course, whenever he calls/texts I should just be ready to talk to him. I don't know... He's sweet, but, what the hell?
Then there was the last guy I liked. I really, really, really, liked him for like two years, but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I can get because, yeah, I'm young and stuff so I thought we'd just wait till like highschool or something. Yeah well, he moved away. F my life.
And it kind of sucks because my three bestfriends are all insanely pretty, and I mean, I know I'm pretty too, but they're gorgeous. It sucks so bad that whenever we go out, the boys all flirt with them and then they turn to me like a sloppy second. Plus all of the guys at school like me, but they made this like "Top Five Hot Girls" and I wasn't on it. I know its stupid and dumb and immature and I should waste my time worrying about it, but it hurts you know? I love my friends, and they're the best but it's so hard hanging out with them, because all I can do is compare myself and it's all because I have sucky self esteem.
Then there's this other guy that I kind of like right now. But because I'm an idiot, I like threw myself at him. Like I tried to talk to him 24/7 so I looked like a creepy obsessed girl... and well I think I blew it with him which really stinks cuz I think it could have worked. And that whole ordeal really hasn't helped my confidence much at all.
So at the moment, I'm kind of just ready to give up. I think about all of that stuff I just wrote and, God, I feel so pathetic. I feel ugly and gross and unwanted and stupid. What the hell is wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with myself? Why do these dumb boys' opinions matter to me so much? (link)
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listen your still young and i believe that almost every girl who was your age passed through this..Iguys your age dont know what they want, so they just play games anyways..be happy with yourself and feel confident, guys like that in a girl..But dont rush your life, there are plenty of other guys who thinks you are pretty and you dont even know about it. & so what if your friends are gorgeous, you are too & you need to show these guys that you are beautiful..You are only 14 hun, you are nowhere near the end of dating, it is just gunah start, have fun with it.
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