Hey!!
I'm Lollipop. I'm 15, but I know more than you would think. I've had my share of crap, and now I'm here to answer questions. I orginally joined this site to GET advice, but I've found that I answer more questions than I ask. I have also found that I relate to almost every love life question. Let's just say I had a tough year... So, that's my area of expertise. The one thing that bugs me the most on this site are when people say you're too young to feel what you feel. Screw that. I don't think it matters if you're 15 or 51, you know what you feel. I don't know much about sex because I believe in waiting until marriage, but I know what it's like to be pressured. Ask me something, and I will give you an answer.
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so the other day,
well actually now a couple of days ago,
me, my girlfriend, my guy friend, and one of my closest (girl) friends, went out.
all the while i couldnt help but notice that my (girl) friend, kept flirting with my girlfriend.
she called her cute, and when my dude friend squished a bug that my girlfriend was looking at my (girl) friend sort of pretended to beat my dude friend up. in the car back home, my (girl) friend kept trying to talk to my girlfriend, and i was just livid that whole ride.
i didnt know if i was just being rediculous and over pretective or not, so i chose not to say anything.
im not worried about my girlfriend liking my (girl) friend, i just think that it was so rude to, (through my observation) flirt with MY girlfriend.
i dont know what kind of attitude i should display to my (girl) friend, or if i should confront her about the whole situation or not.
help?? (link)
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Dear flirting?,
Okay dear, well one of two things could be happening here based on what you've told me.
Number 1: Your (girl) friend might be a lesbian/bisexual. In this case, things would be quite tricky, and you might have to confront her about it. But not to talk about her "flirting". If she is bi then you should be concerned in helping her because she is probably very confused and lost. So until that gets sorted out, don't even bring your girlfriend into the subject. Just be there as a friend.
Number 2: This one is probably the more likely of the two. What I think is going on is that your (girl) friend is, as you said, very close to you, and she probably just wants your girlfriend to like her. So what you may see as flirting is probably just her trying to establish a friendship with your gilrfriend so that there is no awkwardness betweeen them. Does that make sense? Maybe its just a girl thing.
But either way, you need to talk to your (girl) friend and see whats going on.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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im actually a girl, i probrably should have mentioned that somewhere in there.
thanks anyways x)
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