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Q: I don't know why,but my love life is a disaster.I don't know why I don't have a boyfriend.I am good-looking and smart,also a nice and friendly person,but no guy seems interested in me.No matter how hard I try no one likes me.So,the question is-what am I doing wrong?Is it me or something else?
I'm a 15 year old girl btw and I don't know what to do,I'm quite depressed about this whole thing.
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Well, from the way you tell it, it looks like you've got some confidence. That's super (: It's awesome that you can pick out specifics that are good qualities about yourself, regardless of how things are going. Just think, there are a lot of people who can't do that. Now, I'm certainly not going to tell you that you're too young for a relationship or go down that road with my advice. Instead, I'll give you my story. I'm 16 years old, and I had a girlfriend a few months before I turned 15. We dated for almost a year, then we were on and off for quite some time. We were absolutely perfect together, and I'm sure I was in love with her. But it ended horribly, and that led to some serious issues for the both of us. This is a very common story among thousands of teens all over the world, as you probably know. But, as I learned from experience, it's so much easier to imagine heartbreak than it is to deal with it. So, maybe, you should consider yourself lucky enough to be skipping all of that. Sure, it's great to have someone you're in tune with, but all great things must end. And I will tell you this, you're young, and you have plenty of time to find someone to be compatible with. And you shouldn't worry about "trying to hard", because really, you shouldn't have to try at all. Sure, you can go out and try to find love, but TRUE love always finds you. So don't get yourself down for being single. All it means is that the right one hasn't come along yet. Just keep being the adorable, charming young lady you've made yourself out to be, and it will all work out for you when the time is right. For now, just enjoy being single. It has it's perks!
Best wishes,
Elliott [:
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I took my heartbreak well I think,and you're absolutely right,being single has its perks...Until now I was too hung up on having a boyfriend,but you made me realise it's not the end of the world if I don't have one...Thanks for good advice,I'll keep this in mind... :)))))
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Hey there everyone =]
My name's Elliott, and I'm here to answer all of your burning questions! And since I'm getting to know you, I think it'd be a good idea to let you know a bit about me. I'm just a 16-year-old girl, and a Junior in high school. I'd say with my story, I have some experience in answering many of high school's most common questions(See my Favorite Categories). Generally, I love to play the guitar and the piano. Writing, whether it be lyrics, short stories
or poetry, well, I've always had a passion
for it =] I'm News Editor for my high school paper, and Poetry Co-Editor for the magazine- So if you have any English questions, be sure I'm the one you ask! Haha (: If there's anything else you're curious to know, then just go ahead and ask! I won't bite, i promise [= Ask for my cell number too if you want, I'll share.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Pennsylvania Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 18, 2008 Answers: 34 Last Update: October 28, 2009 Visitors: 3557
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