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Friends, I am in desperate need of help, I am 40 happily married and a lovely family but recently on a long haul work related trip I badly rather we badly fell for each other that is me and my friend/colleague since the past 20 years. He has always been been my close friend, very trusted and we would share our worries and actually grew our families on each others experiences. But this new feeling is devastating, I know I am deadly in love with him and he too is. The attraction is so obvious that we would be lying if we deny it. I do not want to leave my family neither does he, but we love each other as well. It was a damned moment when we argued on something simple and he apologised and we felt how anything we do and say reaches our hearts. Later on we even talked about it, held each other and realised there is no future, and we do not want our families to hurt, but we do not know what to do.

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You said you are happily married and you seem to love your family being that you care for their feelings.

I have been there and done that. The grass is never greener on the other side. I think that you are longing to feel the feeling of newness, and freshness; therefore I encourage you to do something new and fresh in your marriage that you have. Also being that this thing with the other guy was years ago, you could also be reaching back for some of your youth too. I noticed you mentioned "like a 20 year old". As we get older, we do need some type of rejuvination, but find it in yourself, your family, and your husband. Please stop communicating with that other man, because if your husband did it, you would go off, now keep it real. Do some statiscal research girl, most affairs start at work and you know it is not even worth it. I know it too. So be strong, true, real and faithful to not only your husband but your family. Good luck and leave that man alone girl. Hey, watch the movie a family that preys...

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(Rating: 5) Venom, I am so relieved to get these responses, believe me they all helped me relax and rethink the whole situation.
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