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Friends, I am in desperate need of help, I am 40 happily married and a lovely family but recently on a long haul work related trip I badly rather we badly fell for each other that is me and my friend/colleague since the past 20 years. He has always been been my close friend, very trusted and we would share our worries and actually grew our families on each others experiences. But this new feeling is devastating, I know I am deadly in love with him and he too is. The attraction is so obvious that we would be lying if we deny it. I do not want to leave my family neither does he, but we love each other as well. It was a damned moment when we argued on something simple and he apologised and we felt how anything we do and say reaches our hearts. Later on we even talked about it, held each other and realised there is no future, and we do not want our families to hurt, but we do not know what to do.
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I somewhat agree with the pervious person. It might have been a fling which I am sure you know the feeling is very similar to the real thing. But if you really are in love with him it will happen one way or another, so if you don't want to hurt your family you should probably stay away from him...hopefully you will get over him without too many ramafications. good luck!
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Hi! I am amazed to know that people actually took time and responded to my problem. You are right I love my family, I have one daughter and a handsome most husband, we are almost perfect and envied by all and sundry, most featured and talked about couple and now a family. And that is what is eating me, triggering all hot buttons in me and bringing out behavior that are so unproductive and i feel guilty, shame and self pity.
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