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Last Update: July 15, 2009
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OK theres this guy his name is Jason! really I dont know too much about him considering I've only hung out with him for like a total of 2 weeks, and I've only known him for a little over a month. The first day I met him I was with my best friend to go hang out with her boyfriend and this guy jason just stood out to me. well anyways we stayed that night at his house and his kisses (undescribable)! Everyday for the next week after that I was around him. My problem though is that at night when we're in his room it's like we cared so much but the next day it was like nothing. maybe it was cuz when his friends asked me if I liked him I would say no just because it doesnt seem like Im the type of girl that could ever be more than a careless fling for him and I am scared of rejection! so anyways after that first week or a bit more I went about 3 weeks wuthout seeing him and just a couple days ago on my birthday I was hanging out with my friend mario and we ended up at jasons house that night.
The things I noticed that night was that in the week he was around me he saw and remembered things about me I never noticed. He could tell me exactly what I was thinking. and he made me happier than I have ever been with a guy. Then the next day it was like it didnt matter. I have two problems here. First one is its like when its just me and him he cares almost more than me but when we're around his friends he says he doesnt care. My second problem is I want to see him even if we can never be together but where he hangs out I dont know anyone really well there and I dont want to just wait for one of my friends to go around him for me to see him but I dont want to go there and not be wanted so what do I do? (link)
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Okay first calm down everythings all right. So you obviously have to like this guy or you wouldn't be in this situation. i can understand where you're coming from with being afriad of rejection becuase i'm terrified of it, but at the same time if you don't tell his friends or your friends that you like him then someone will eventually get him to go out with them. Maybe the reason he acted like he didn't care the second time around is because he likes you and his friends told him that you said you didn't like him.Another thing is he could also be afraid of rejection and as for your second problem you should take some of your friends that are girls and to the places he hangs out to mingle and test it out. I really hope this helps.
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Volunteergirl
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Thanks your advice was great! I hope it works
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