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I'm Meg, I love the Art Deco movement and the time period all around, I love my Bengerman, I want a French Bulldog named Winston and a cat named Frou Frou and to be in Maine with my Benjamin forever. Oh, and I give great advice, ahah.

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15/f iv been with my guy for almost a year and we cant wait till we get married were going to at the end of high school, he gave me a promise ring that means the world to me, we are really in love and he knows me better than i know myself. All my friends love it that were together n say were the cutest couple ever, everything is perfect when I am with him. We do up to oral and sometimes r not to careful..
Things started falling apart about 7 months ago when I escaped rape. I now have severe post traumatic stress disorder, psychosis, mania and depression, chronic pain from my insides being ripped up and I get hospitalized a lot. It is very stressful on him because he cares the world for me and tortures himself when I am hospitalized or hallucinate. And he formed shared psychosis disorder from me.
i say life is great though ..But my questions are .1. I look pregnant, I’m skinny everywhere but the baby area on my stomach its like bam lol but I am a virgin and missed every period for the last 4 months but started today.. Even though iv jacked him he touched it then he fingered me.. My friends getting me a pregnancy test tonight. Could I be pregnant? Or maybe it could be my intestines? Since they are messed up big time.
.2. How else can I help him I feel so bad that he is like this since its my fault? And it seems like he is hurt even more since I almost got raped he wont forget the past. How do I help?
.3. I love him so much and I say only sex after marriage, but it seems like the time is so right, we have talked about it a lot and we might around our two year anniversary, should we? I feel like it’s the biggest decision ever and I want to but then I don’t since I am young.. He and my two best friends stayed the night Friday and I slept with him it was nearly impossible to resist.
If you could please answer any or all that would be great :D

I'm terribly sorry for what you went through, but with someone like that you can only go up. 1. There is nooooooooooo possiblity you are pregnant.. 2. Don't blame yourself, he probably feels helpless because he couldn't protect you from the incident. And 3. Just take your time and give a good thinking over. You have to love yourself before you can give yourself away.

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(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much :) and for 3 i do love myself becausea him he says soo many sweet things about me and my body he picks me up from working out at karate or sees me right when i get outa the shower with no makeup or nothing n he says i look better than ever. but thanks i will wait :D
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