Hey!!
I'm Lollipop. I'm 15, but I know more than you would think. I've had my share of crap, and now I'm here to answer questions. I orginally joined this site to GET advice, but I've found that I answer more questions than I ask. I have also found that I relate to almost every love life question. Let's just say I had a tough year... So, that's my area of expertise. The one thing that bugs me the most on this site are when people say you're too young to feel what you feel. Screw that. I don't think it matters if you're 15 or 51, you know what you feel. I don't know much about sex because I believe in waiting until marriage, but I know what it's like to be pressured. Ask me something, and I will give you an answer.
xoxo
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15/f iv been with my guy for almost a year and we cant wait till we get married were going to at the end of high school, he gave me a promise ring that means the world to me, we are really in love and he knows me better than i know myself. All my friends love it that were together n say were the cutest couple ever, everything is perfect when I am with him. We do up to oral and sometimes r not to careful..
Things started falling apart about 7 months ago when I escaped rape. I now have severe post traumatic stress disorder, psychosis, mania and depression, chronic pain from my insides being ripped up and I get hospitalized a lot. It is very stressful on him because he cares the world for me and tortures himself when I am hospitalized or hallucinate. And he formed shared psychosis disorder from me.
i say life is great though ..But my questions are .1. I look pregnant, I’m skinny everywhere but the baby area on my stomach its like bam lol but I am a virgin and missed every period for the last 4 months but started today.. Even though iv jacked him he touched it then he fingered me.. My friends getting me a pregnancy test tonight. Could I be pregnant? Or maybe it could be my intestines? Since they are messed up big time.
.2. How else can I help him I feel so bad that he is like this since its my fault? And it seems like he is hurt even more since I almost got raped he wont forget the past. How do I help?
.3. I love him so much and I say only sex after marriage, but it seems like the time is so right, we have talked about it a lot and we might around our two year anniversary, should we? I feel like it’s the biggest decision ever and I want to but then I don’t since I am young.. He and my two best friends stayed the night Friday and I slept with him it was nearly impossible to resist.
If you could please answer any or all that would be great :D
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Dear 'love and abstinence and hardships'
1. Uhm, Listen hun, there is a very large change that you could be pregnant right now. You should DEFINITELY get that checked out. If he had semen on his hand when he fingered you... well, you might be in some trouble...
Okay, well, if you AREN'T pregnant, here is my other advice.
2. You and your boyfriend should take therapy TOGEHTER. Aw, too cute huh? I think it would totally help you relationship and help him to feel better. It would be good for him to watch you progress, and vice versa.
3. I think you should wait for sex. If you two do end up getting married, it will make your wedding night so spectacular. I am a firm believer in the "no sex before marriage" rule. Not only is it my religion but I just think waiting is the most romantic thing in the world. It means that you saved a part of yourself for your husband your entire life, before you even knew him. I just think its beautiful.
Well babe, I really hope you're not pregnant, but to be honest, I am a little worried at the moment. And I hope you and your lover make the right decision, whatever you may deem that to be.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLL-i-PoP
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thank you sooooo much :D it helped alot ..and i fianllly started my period sooo could i still be?
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