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So i'll be a senior in the fall and i've never been kissed nor have i been in a relationship. I've only "talked" to boys a few times throughout HS. It's so embarrassing. I think you have to ACTUALLY be in my position to know how pitiful this is. So I like this boy and he likes me and we randomly started talking about sucking dick and eating out girls. I'm not a fan of either and so he just started to judge me. He told me I was crazy for not wanting a guy to eat me out. People judge me all the time, and I hate the feeling of being judged. Sometimes, I think I would've been better off giving my all to the first boy I talked too. Because I can't take this anymore. All I want is one nice boy..is that asking for too much? My standards aren't high. I'm outgoing, friendly, and fun. Please don't respond with "you'll find one someday, just wait, or be true to yourself B.S." Cause, that just makes me feel worse inside. What do you think with all of this? Should I see how things go with him? Should I be carefree?

thanks.

I feel your pain, hon. I've never been in a "real" relationship throughout high school (incoming junior), just stupid middle school ones that lasted a week or so and didn't even matter. My only problem is that I do have standards, I'm not a slut, and my inner circle is all girls.

Make fate work for you and flirt more with guys. If you go on a long-distance road trip with friends, be VERY bold -- you'd never see the guy again if you didn't make the effort, right? -- and flirt like crazy. The more times you do that, the more you'll become open to talking to guys at home.

And you said you're a senior anyway. You'll be meeting thousands of new guys at college next year. Chances are in your favor that you'll be in a relationship with at least one of them.

Don't throw it all away on a guy that doesn't even matter. Because you're older, you'll be able to cherish your first kiss more, first everything. Wait for someone who really matters to you, not some douche who obviously wants you for your body.

Hope I helped, hon:)
xoxo

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(Rating: 5) you're right. someday i'll be happy =]
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