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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years already. I do everything for him. If he needs a ride im there. If he needs money im there. We go out to eat on weekends he usually pays when I offer to. We see each other almost everything but not the whole day together. I do super nice things for him. For example when we go to his soccer game I pass by a gas station and buy him his favorite gatorade drink or or ill help him wit homework or stuff like that. I feel like I go above and beyond for him. But on the other hand he doesn't do anything like that for. For example. I took my brother and his sister to a community college to take a placemment test, it takes 2 hours to finish. I ask him if he could pick me up so I wouldn't be alone. He complained and said that he would have to bring me back and it would be pointless when he lives about 5 minutes away. And another thing I don't know if I just feel insecure or I feel like he's drifting away but I complained that he didn't have pictures of me on his phone or his laptop or even his itouch. He said I was being stupid and I complain over the stupidest thing. I don't know what to do. We get into arguments frequently now. It really feels like he doesn't love me. I don't know what to do. Am I stupid for complaining. And feeling this way?

Cuddle has a point. There's just one thing I've learned from people around me: During a "break" someone will generally date and/or sleep with other people. The other one then gets mad and that leads to a possibly violent break-up. In my opinion, since it sounds like neither of you is enjoying the relationship, you should calmly break up with him. Don't tell him why you're breaking up, especially if he asks. If he appears to get angry, leave ASAP. It might get dangerous.

Remember, if your relationship isn't fun 85% of the time, it's time to leave.

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