Member Since: June 8, 2009
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Last Update: June 12, 2009
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Okay guys will be uys i understand that.
Why do guys always say they love a girl but really there just playing her. i dont understand any of that.
guys your advice would help me..
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First of all guys that age don't really "like" girls the way girls like boys. Boys like what's in a girls shirt and what's in her pants. They may think she's nice, pretty, whatever, but it's really what's under your shirt and in your pants they want. At your age, it's not love but lust. It feels great, it's strong and powerful and romantic and all of that.. but that's not real love. And guys tell a girl what they think the girl wants to hear so a guy can score. Heck.. I'm in my mid 30's and men at MY age are still doing that. It doesn't end. If a guy says all these wonderful things, say thank you but don't put out, not even an inch. If he is a decent guy and truly just likes spending time with you, he'll respect your wishes and not make a move or pressure you. Girls today act like they aren't something worthy of being pursued. But you are. Let a guy "chase" you and don't just give yourself away. And guys are going to treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If you treat yourself and your body with respect and limits, then they will respect you. Because if a guy treats you like a jerk, you'll have enough respect for yourself you tell that jerk to kiss off!
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