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Well Im 20, and I'd like to think ive had more than enough life experiance to give pretty good advice, at least on things that i have had similar experiences with. But feel free to ask me anything, im cirrently deployed until october, so ill have all fo the time im the world to answer anything you want to know! Ill even answer personal questions!@
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Okay, So I'm 15 years old,a girl. Sophomore soon to be Junior this fall. I met this guy in theatre awhile ago. We'll call him A. He's 20 years old now. I have liked him for so long and I've had a feeling he liked me too. So one night he came over for dinner and my parents really like him. He also asked me to the movies before then, but my dad was not going for it. So we talk on the phone occasionally text alot. Then the other night we kind of told eachother how we felt. He actually likes me too. We just know this age thing isn't going to workout. Also, he's transferring to another college in the state in late August. So I was wondering what I should do. I mean the next day after we talked. We hung out. We kissed. Alot. So I'm just wondering how I should go about this. I've never fell for a guy this hard. This sweet and such. I just don't want to be more hurt when he leaves then I would have if nothing happened at all.[BTW he's not like a pedaphile or anything. I know he's old and all but nothing like that.]
Thanks for any help you can give me. (link)
Age is aonly a number, but you have to keep in mind that its relative, the older youget the less age matters, those of us who have parents that are 8 years apart need to keep in mind taht they more than likelty met when they were older, my parents for example are 9 years apart and they met when they were well into their 20s and 30s respectively. If you like the guy andf he likes you tahts great, but if hes 20 it relfects how immature he really is in wanting to date a 15 year ols (no offense) that would be like me (20) dating my sisters friends (15). You aND HE live in different worlds, 9in a year or less he will be drinking, doubling the illegality of your relationship, sex will still be illegal, and odds are you parents will not look at the whole think to kindly. He will more than likely always want you to stay out late and stuff, wnd while HE may not get in trouble for it, you still are a minor living with your parents, so they still have a great deal of power over you, and if they have a reason not to like him, they could have him arrested easily.


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