Hello I am just a girl trying to find her place in the world. I am happy to give advice just as I am happy to ask questions when I need help. So if anyone needs advice, do not be afraid to ask! =D
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im 40 (man) and live in chicago she 23 lives in michigan we have been talking for 1 yr and a half we have fallen in love to the point of she had said she allways wanted to be with me and planned a future allthough we talk sevreal times a day she has put off meeting and now says she is overwhelmed with our realtionship and wants to slow down is she with someone else? or is it her age ? why the big change she has written me many letters and cards saying how she wants us to be a (family)and she never wants to not be in my life and im the man she has been lookin for she does like older guys but im the oldest she has met and she says she has fallen for me we do exchange pics and cam and exchange gifts im toatally in love with her as well she is a smart profesional woman college educated and im a single father with a house what do i do to find the truth out she has a difficult time expressing her self unlike before were she allways told me she wanted us to allways be toghether she said shes becomeing messhed with me and shes geting scared i know she does love me ive tryed to break away and she crys and says she doesnt not want me in her life ? im so confused and in love ,,,help
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Hello! Well, I think she does love you just as much as you love her, but I think that she is just overwhelmed. I know it may not make the most sense, but I totally understand. Think of it this way, she really wants to be with you, (or else she would not cry for you)she probably just has a lot to think about. My father had the same problem, he was about your age and the woman was about 25 or 24. They liked each other vey much and wanted to be together. When she says she is scared, she is probably scared of commitment. I know for a fact she loves you but she is just thinking about her feelings about you. Try not to worry. Best of luck to you! Hope this helps =)
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thank u for ur advice i just luv her so much and want to do whats right for both of us
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