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Heya, im a 17 year old guy (18 next month) and iv been alone for what seems like a life time..i know i should count myself lucky for the one girlfriend i have had which was 5 years ago now :/
anyway i get kinda lonely and i know iv got alot more waiting before some one comes into my life and makes me happy. tips for the lonlyness please?
I like Skateboarding, Snowboarding, Guitar, Drums, Art and Making somthing worthwhile eg: songs and video's (skate or snowboarding) if you could give me artistic hints for video idea that would be appreciated too thanks :) but use it as a side note ;D
*Hey, you're very welcome. I'm shy as heck too...sometimes I get scared I might be Agoraphobic or something. It's really all about faking it. Faking happiness, confidence, whatever's necessary. I'm sure you have a lot of friends, just go out with them. Keep the girlfriend issue off you mind. There's a time for everything in this life, don't give up. Let me know if you need any more advice; it's what I'm here for =].*
Oh. My god. Do you know what I would give for a guy like you to exist in my city? You sound like a really awesome guy. All the guys I know like rap, sex and fighting. That's it. That's all there is to keep themselves busy. Oh, not to mention the weed and alcohol.
I've been hearing the same thing for as long as I can remember, and I got to experience it not long ago: things we want, come when we least expect them. I'd wanted a boyfriend so bad, I stop obsessing over it, and I got one! Just like that. I didn't even give him a chance, dumped him a week later. I realized a boyfriend is not what I need right now at all.
I just think you should be patient, and not resign so easily. Don't confine yourself to your room. Go out and have fun, but don't go out just to look for a girlfriend. She'll come to you, eventually, especially if you're in or entering college. Keep busy, but with friends, and social activities. Best of luck
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The first line of your answer made me smile alot! thank you ^_^ i dont hear that very often at all. and im really kinda shy i guess thats why i dont get out alot :S thanks alot for your answer too, i am working on some of those things but when it comes into play i go to jelly haha
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