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I am engaged to marry a great guy next year. i love him very much. but i resently started having conversations with him about children. he got really distant about it. and the other day he came right out and said he doesn't like children and doesn't want them. I don't think its his real answer. he never had a dad( his dad ran off when he was 3) and his mother consantly tells him he isn't dad material. but one of our friends has a 4 year old and he always plays with her. people keep telling me that if he does't want children i should find someone else, but i love him so much i'm stuck i don't know what to do please help i need some outside perspective.
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First off i would ask him if in the future maybe not right now will he ever want kids. now if he says no you need to tell him that you do and ask him how it will ever work out if you want kids and he doesnt. most likely he just doesnt want them now. there is not much you can do but talk to him about it. hope i helped.
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