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I have been in this relationship around a year I do have a gem for a girl friend and there is no doubt that she wants to marry me . I just want to get more of my eggs in a row although I am thinking more along the lines of marriage and not so much ingagement.So my question is would this be to soon?Keep in mind we are not young 18 year olds we are both 45 years old she has been single for over 20 years while she made commitments to raising her children now they are grown and so are mine I am a widower my wife passed away in 1985 although I did date over the years I was single for 6 years prior to meeting her in church.And yes we dont sleep together.We choose to be patient. (link)
Of course! That's such a nice story and I'm glad that you both were able to find someone after all of these years. I don't think a year is too soon, and as long as you know the feeling is mutual back then you should go for it! The worst she could say is no, but even if she did, that hopefully wouldn't ruin the commitment yall have with each other.

Go for it! and good luck :D


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It is a nice story and the wonderful thing is we are living it. I have the up most confidence in her saying yes since we have talked about it I just want things to be right for us I dont want to take advantage of a wonderful thing she is such a jewell and I will do any thing for her . thank you for your time and God Bless you!




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