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Hey, lots of people say I give great advice that (usually) comes through in the end, but I'll let you be the judge of that.

I love reading, rocking and getting high. [:
I play bass guitar and I am bisexual.
I am a purebred metalhead, but I'm really into peace and love and all the hippy crap... probably because I'm a pot head. XP

I don't have many chick friends, I just don't get along as well with females. My bestfriend's are the greatest. [:

I like to meet new people and have fun. So, got a question? I'll do my best to answer it.

Peace.
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Hey guys. Brace yourselves this is really long. I am 14/f, 15 in June, a freshman in high school, and SOOO confused. Well I am a nerd. I've had this MAJOR crush on a dude; lets call him HM, ever since the first day of high school, and HM's WAY higher up on the social status bar than I am. In fact, he's the most popular guy in the whole dang school. He turned seventeen on the 15th of May, and he's a junior. Anyways, he's SO hott, and funny, and muscular, and tall, nice and… Well I'm getting carried away sorry, heh. So, about two months or so ago, he came up to me one day and started "flirting" with me to see what I would do. His flirting with me is obviously a joke, so don’t worry, I don't have my hopes up on this. Well, I gave him this horrified/surprised look, and my face got REALLY red. And then, it began. Now, what I mean by fake flirting is he will do all sorts of things just for me to give him that look, and his attempts get more extreme as time goes on. For example, when he first started, it was only sexy looks across the classroom at me. That went on for a while until he would then mouth "I love you", then in the hallways with his friends he would say, "You see that girl right there? Yeah, that's my baby." Then (We both have the same lunch) this one time about a month ago at lunch, one of his friends came over to where my nerd friends and I were sitting at lunch, sat next to me and put his arm around me. HM came storming over and said, “HEY, what are you doing with my girl?!” His friend said “YOU’RE girl?” Then suddenly HM and his friend had this fake fight. One of his friends tied his shoelaces in a loop, put it around my neck and said “A token of my love!” HM came over, took it off and said “Get that piece of filth off my woman!” He’s been doing this at least three times a week. Once in the only class I have with him, he grabbed my hand, and once… He hugged me. I know these things are only jokes, but I’ve been noticing things lately. Like when he doesn’t do his “Routine”, out of the corner of my eye I can see him staring at me, and not in a joking way, either. Believe me, I can tell the difference. I was once walking, and he and one of his friends were behind me. His friend said “Stupid freshman…” HM said angrily “Dude SHUT UP.” So, what’s going on? A nickname my friends and I made up for love is “Diggin’ someone’s trousers.” I definitely dig his. But the question is… Are my trousers starting to catch his eye, if you know what I mean? Thanks~! (link)
This dude sounds like a jerk-off.

Kay, Well... I'm too sure what's happening since
I'm not there. But consider this: He likes you.
But, because you're a nerd(no offense) his mates
might pay him out for it. So, he jokes about it
with his mates, but secretly wants you.

But, he may just be some douche that's bored with
everything, and is just trying to have fun.

Like I said, this dude seems like a jerk-off, most
are. (Sorry, but it's quite true.)


Rating: 5
Hah, I totally agree on how most men are jerks. HM can be really nice sometimes though. In middle school and his freshman year, he used to be this "chubby" nerd. But then he went on a diet during summer and worked out, and by sophmore year, he was tall, muscular, and HOTT. So, whenever his friends have a chance at making fun of us nerds, he gets angry. So... I don't know if that means anything lol. And no offense taken to the nerd thing. I'm proud of it actually, lol.




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