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Hey there,
I am a 16f. I live in a small town, with a lot of older people, ugh sorta, if you know what I mean...
Anyhow, I really want to meet more guys. All the guys in my school are so immature, and im serious when I say 'they are SO immature. They have not grown up since I have known them (forever) and they dont plan to grow up anytime'. They like being lazy, jerks.
I feel as if I need some personal love in my life. I don't have any true friends/close friends, they are REALLY hard to come by in my community.. and all the friends I have had so far,have backstabbed me in one way or another.
I know it is hard to meet that 'special someone', but he must be SOMEWHERE. I feel as if any guys who will be interested,or single,are probably in another country. There have got to be decent guys out there! How do I find them? and what can I do to make myself more..approachable, I guess.
I have a nice figure,love who I am,dont put myself down,have an outgoing personality,am involved in several different activities (school and community),and I respect everyone. I think I just have bad luck when it comes to guys..?.
Being in this little town isnt really helping either.. It seems, almost hopeless. I know guys arent everything, but I AM sure it is something that would make my life seem more fullfilling and just make my heart smile, you know?
I need a hand to hold, a special someone to hold me, and a heart I can hold close to mine

You sound exactly like me. Haha I asked a question almost exactly like this a few weeks ago. Same age and everything. I don't think I live in quite as small a town as you (from how you speak of it), but I do live in rural suburbia. And I'm so tired of it. lol

This is my best advice.
- Join more clubs or groups where you meet guys from other areas/schools. Although trust me, I know first hand that options are limited when you live in a town where nothing's going on.
- Get a job in a place where hot guys work or go often. Hey, sometimes fate just happens, but sometimes, you gotta make it work for you ;)
- Go on a vacation/road trip with your friends this summer and go boyfriend hunting. (Don't go too far away, though, because there's more of a chance of a veryy long-distance relationship.)
- Go to an event in the city with friends, like a concert or something. There will be so many people, many of which you will probably never see again in your life, so feel free to flirt as much as you want. Be bold and just slip a guy your number as you pass by- worst case scenario, he doesn't call!

Hope I helped hon, and trust me, I feel your pain. But a year or two from now we'll be in college, where there will be options everywhere :)

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(Rating: 5) Awe.. thanx! That is exactly what I am hoping ;)
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